Skip to main content

"Growing Up"


                                                                                                           "Growing Up"

Growing up can be so challenging.. I am a mature grown woman now, who has made many mistakes in her life. Today I see these mistakes made by the younger generation and I just want to save you before you even try to take the leap, but what is growing if you are not learning from it.

You are going to be judged by many people but you just have to focus on what you really want out of life. This world will try breaking you but you just have to keep your focus.

Enrich your mind: Keep challenging yourself to learn new things. Don't allow yourself to get stuck in one place either mentally or physically. Ask questions (be inquisitive), push yourself to try out new things, do new things.  Spend time with people: Build a good support group, whether it is family or friends. Most of the time the best support we get are from strangers and not our families and it is ok to feel secure with strangers as long as you can trust them wholeheartedly. Find a good listener, we all need that one person we can trust. Also you have to learn to think about what you about to say before it leaves the mouth, because you can never take it back. Never rush your age, enjoy everyday, make the best of it, have fun, study, get the job you want- then spoil yourself before you even think of having your own family- Travel, Shop, Know yourself...

If you want to grow more:
Compliment yourself more
Don't make excuses- "Just Do it"
Let go of anger ( I am still learning this)
Practice Forgiveness ( I am still learning how)
Be honest and direct ( if you do not like something, it is ok to say No)
Be helpful ( Helping others can take you a long way, you never know when you   will need the person).
Listen to others ( We do not know everything- we learn everyday. I am still learning, your parents are, even the professors are still learning)

Growing up is also about facing your fears, you just have to take it on and do it. You will come out stronger in the end. Growing up comes with lots of heartbreaks, let downs; we all go through it and we come out of it- so yes you can come out of it as well.

                  Love more, be ambitious, Live your life ( feel free) 💗

1Timothy 4:12 - Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity. 🙏

<script data-ad-client="ca-pub-9387501861350885" async src=""></script>


Nathalie said…
This text is inspiring, I wish someone had told me all of that when I was younger! And also: it gets better.

Popular posts from this blog

Gossip Dies when it hits a wise person's ears

I always worried about what people said, I was always insecure. I think I started feeling like this from a very early age. In high school it was even worse. Lot's of girl's in school never liked me, so I always had a wall built up. I was gossiped about so many times. I will never forget the day I found out I was pregnant, I was still in school, I confided in a close friend- I should of never have done that because before I knew it, it was out. I was laughed at, I was mocked at and I believe that a lot of those people including some family members thought I will not make anything of myself because I "RUINED" my life.. I showed all of them that nothing will bring me down and up till this day I keep on shining no matter what life throws at me. Even me not been married at my age get's talked about- mainly by woman who are married. I have no clue why some married woman feel the need to look down on us single woman (we not interested in stealing your man, so what then.…

Never take a good woman for granted.....

 Never take a good woman for granted...
Men are quicker to move on, but usually live in regret. Woman usually take nonsense on; repeatedly and never think they are able to leave but once they do they go for good. When a woman says Enough is Enough, she will never change her mind. We are forgiving and patient. We are forgiving up to a certain extent. Never taker "her" patience for granted (once she is tired there is no way she will turn back). We take on a lot of terrible treatment from our people before we can actually stand on our feet and say this is ENOUGH.

A woman's tolerance can only go up to a certain extent. Some of us woman do not want to bear the embarrassment from family and friends for telling them our struggles. We do not want people to tell us when the time is right to leave. We will reach that stage on our own and know when the time is right. Men have to constantly stay on top of their game to make sure she is the Queen in their lives and she does get treated…

What was my biggest challenge for having my own business..

     What was my biggest challenge for having my own business..
My biggest challenge for wanting to have my own business was having an unsupportive partner, having a full time job and been a mother of 3…
In 2018 I needed to take charge of my life again, one step at a time..
1st was letting go of my partner, then I finally started doing things that I loved, like starting my small business- selling cars, also selling a weight loss product and then also starting my blog… it was still challenging for me to juggle everything because my full time job took most of my time, coming home and been attentive to my kids was important to me but I had to also make sure to make extra cash so that they are always comfortable.
Beginning of 2019 I was approached by one of my dear friends Dominic Carrim about an exciting opportunity…
She told me about it and I was hesitant and told her that I heard about Nuskin and I am not really interested (she was persistent and told me Chantal I know this is for you ;take…