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Long Distance Relationships


Long Distance Relationships


When it comes to long distance relationships it will never work for me, I cannot handle it. 

I tried it for like 2 months- it made me very miserable. We would make plans for one of us to visit the other but due to our busy lives, a lot of rescheduling was happening. I started getting bored and became distant, I then had the courage to tell him that I am sorry- it is maybe working for him but I just can't. I want my "person"in the same city as me, even if we not living under the same roof. But just the thought of him not been able to come see me whenever will kill me. Even though he was an intelligent, handsome, strong, hardworking man and we clicked a lot when we were together, I just could not see it lasting 😒... Maybe in another world, another time..

I want face to face interaction, I want to be able to take walks with him, want to throw ideas around with him (very difficult doing all this via messaging), I want to cry on his shoulder when I am feeling down, I want to be able to share good news with him in my prescence. People that do this must be very strong, have lots of trust as well. This should also not be a permanent thing if you are in a long distance relationship- there should come a point when you both decide which City is suitable for the both of you.


Those currently in a long distance relationship- I wish you luck- I envy your strength....💓



Corinthians 6:14–15 “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? What accord has Christ with Belial? Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever?



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Comments

Tinka said…
Long distant relationship is always going to be harder in the sense there is so much less human conect, if its not for you then don't try playing that game. Go live your life and find someone you can poke in the face any time you like :P haha what a great read by the way!

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