"Wake Up!!!!", Mariage is not an achievement

I guess that been married is a beautiful and amazing journey. We need to stop seeing it as a goal or an accomplishment because it is not- especially now in this day and age.. We living in modern times now people- Get with the program...

There are so many woman out there who are either single or are single mothers doing it all on their own and living their best life. Anyone can get married- you do not need talents or qualifications for marriage. You do not need validation- you do not need marriage to feel special or realize your worth. Marriage seems to be cool but is not defined as a goal. Goals do not depend on other people. Stop saying that your partner completes you. You are already complete ( I am guilty of saying such but I know my worth now). You do not need marriage or a  partner to help you feel complete. Stop feeling like a failure because you not married already. We all have different journey's. Marriage  
does n't always guarantee feelings of satisfaction and happiness. I have seen many people that are married- they seem happy from the outside but we have no clue of how bad it is behind closed doors (people pretend).If marriage is such a huge priority- you might resort to just settling (you are just making yourself miserable). You may also think that if you do not hurry up and get that ring you will end up alone and unhappy. Also stop competing with your friends- just because she is married, you should get married (STOP THAT). Why feel the need to prove something, you can be happy without the ring. You can buy your own ring without been married and still be so happy. When single people attend gatherings and they get asked about when will they get married- Married people that shit needs to stop, Elders you also need to STOP....  (married people stop been hard on single people, thinking you are better than them and you know everything).

Live in the moment, if you destined to get married you will- but for now just live your best life... There are many of us that dream of our big day as well but there are some of us that are quite content with just been single...

"Don't stress about the future, it hasn't arrived. Live in the present and make the most of it....." 💖👑

1 Corinthians 7:7
I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.


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