Perhaps we should love ourselves so fiercely that when others see us they know exactly how it should be done.
When we do not love ourselves how do we expect anyone else to love us. Make yourself a priority once in a while. It's not selfish, t's necessary. I always put everyone else before myself, but after this drastic change that happened to me, I had to re-evaluate my life and what matters. I now put myself first all the time,. I am what matters first. How can I take care of others if I am not taking care of myself. The way to truly love yourself is to remember who you are. Love yourself and be proud of everything you do, even your mistakes because your mistakes mean that you are trying.
Date yourself: Turn off your phone, take long baths, stay in your cozy p.j's, make a list of what you like and want to achieve. Celebrate the things you already are and make plans to turn the rest into reality. By us not making ourselves a priority and loving ourselves we can also cause pain on others because we do not love ourselves. Learning to truly love yourself changes your relationships with everyone.
"The love of my life is myself" 👄💓