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Start been kinder to yourself

 Something that caught my attention today:
"Start been kinder to yourself- if you cannot be kind to yourself, how will you teach others to do the same for you? Self-love needs to be practiced daily, so celebrate yourself, compliment yourself and appreciate everything.

I come from an abusive upbringing. I don't think some of my friends knew what I went through as a child, my sister and I kept it away very well. We built up walls so much, I was so hard on myself that I did not even know how to express LOVE to anyone or myself for that matter.

In my adulthood I carried this with me, I accepted bad relationships because this is what I knew (Men always have power over woman).
Now I am much more KINDER to myself, I am releasing a lot of negativity out of my life- People and also talks around negative stuff. I have practiced to be my own Cheerleader. I compliment myself more, I express Love each day not only to people near me, but try my best to spread it all around me.

Young girl out there with a similar story to mine, you are not alone. Don't be me and drag on with bad friends, bad relationships or sit around with anything you not happy with. You are strong, You are beautiful and you can do anything you set out to BE. No man or anyone can dictate your journey. You just have to believe in yourself.
If you are in a bad relationship and it is so toxic that you are drowning- LEARN HOW TO SAY NO, STOP, ENOUGH..... This toxic mess is blocking all the goodness that this WORLD has to offer you.

Joshua 1:9

"Be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."

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