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I no longer deal, I just remove myself..

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I no longer deal, I just remove myself........

I am an over emotional someone, when I love, I love hard. I am a lover. Before this dramatic change in my life, I used to care too much about what people felt, what they would say about me etc. I have grown so much since this change, I no longer deal, I just remove. So many people have hurt me, close family members, friends, colleagues etc. I used to live with so much anger and hate, then I told myself, no man Charney these people are happy that you so miserable, STOP, ENOUGH.. It was hard for me to just ignore them, but I kept praying and keeping away. 

All that bad energy wears a person out.. What they say about bad energy is that when you surround yourself with such bad energy, you become it. Why fight and rant about bad stuff in life, when there is so much to be HAPPY and GRATEFUL for. 
The thing is; you going to take on this bad energy, nothing will be resolved, you will go to bed with a heavy heart and for what. You come first, and you are what matters. So the best thing for you; is do what I did and don't retaliate but rather remove yourself. The removal does not need to be dramatic but slowly and nicely just get yourself away from it. There is no need to be nasty. There are too many other people who want to LOVE YOU, HAVE FUN WITH YOU;  for you to be still worrying about this bad energy.

It does not mean that you have to be with everybody you love, you can LOVE and SUPPORT them from a distance.Don't ever feel bad because you choose to distance yourself Rather concentrate on who is WORTHY to be in our lives. We cannot love people more than we love ourselves.

We only live once, why should we be carrying around dead weight.. Have FUN, LIVE LIFE, BE THE LIGHT IN SOMEONE's LIFE.

LIVE LIFE, HAVE FUN WHILE LIVING, BE IN HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS, EXERCISE (LOOK AFTER YOUR BODY), DRINK LOTS OF WATER, LOOK IN THE MIRROR TELL YOURSELF HOW MUCH YOU LOVE YOURSELF.....


                                                        LOVE YOURSELF...💗



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